There is so much to write, and so much to tell, I’m just so tired I can’t remember what I want to say, so I’ll keep it short this time.

You don’t know what that person is going through behind the smile. You can’t imagine the calm face that lady is trying to keep while she hears news on the phone that she doesn’t want to know. How many people around who do you really know? Really. Do you have any clue what’s happening in their life?

The reason we don’t know is because sharing is a sign of weakness. We’re scared of judgement and disapproval. It’s just so easy to throw out a statement based on what we think, rather than what we know.

I won’t preach on. My current state in life does not make me a bad person or a bad parent – just a regular person trying to cope with an extraordinary situation .

Hug someone.

Love someone.

Encourage someone.

Bake something for someone.

Stop the judgement